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1933
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2025
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Stanley Cotlar Obituary
Beloved husband of Sandy Cotlar for 69 years. Dear father of Michael (the late Ron Nelson) Cotlar and the late Jodi (Neal) Goone. Loving grandfather of Bradley Cotlar, Andrew (David Gomez) Cotlar, Alyson (Joseph) Dieker, Marc (Liz) Goone, Joey (Stephanie) Goone and Melissa (fiancé, Joe Wojcik) Goone. Cherished great grandfather of Mattix, Easton, Taylor and Brianna Cotlar, Tommy and Louie Dieker, William and Sage Goone. Beloved brother of the late Martin (the late Sally) Cotlar and the late Harvey (Barbara) Cotlar. Dear brother-in-law of the late Julie Margraf, Robert (Lisa) Portnoy and the late David (Regina) Portnoy. Beloved son of the late Harry and the late Blanche Cotlar. Dear uncle, cousin and friend.
Graveside service Thursday, May 22, 11:00am at Chesed Shel Emeth/Beth Shalom Cemetery, 650 White Road. Contributions in his memory may be made to the Alzheimer's Association of St. Louis, 11433 Olde Cabin Rd, St. Louis, MO 63141. The family would like to thank all of Sonny’s caregivers for their warmth, compassion and exceptional care.
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Alan Abramovitz
May 23, 2025
Sandra, I was so sorry to hear of Sonny's passing. May his memory be a blessing for all who knew him.
Love,
Alan
Margaret Bayer
May 21, 2025
My condolences to Sandy and family. Sonny was my boss at Pagoda for years. He taught me so much about the shoe biz and life. He made me laugh everyday. I will treasure my memories of Sonny.
Renee Hartstein
May 21, 2025
To Sandy and family,
Please accept my deepest sympathy on the passing of Sonny.
I have so many fond memories of times together in the past.
Sending love ❤
Renee Hartstein
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