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Ronnie Vaughan
February 19, 2024
still miss you Patrick
Mandy my prayers
Bruce Chandler
March 12, 2014
I was very sad to her of Pat's passing. I remember him from our days together at the Copper Cellar in Knoxville in the late 70's.
Many complimentary adjectives would describe Pat. He was a gentleman, soft spoken, very handsome and a lot of fun. It was nearly 35 years later that I was giving a Eulogy for our departed brother Eli Whitney and I looked out in the congregation and saw this handsome couple and immediately paused and smiled. I recognized Pat and Mandy.
I don't know what transpired in Pat's life in those 35 years but I am sure it was good stuff and worthy of celebration.
I celebrate you Pookie!
Carolyn Tate
March 11, 2014
Mandy, I'm in disbelief. I had no clue until today about Pat and I'm devastated for you and your family. I'm so sorry I haven't made it to Tennessee in recent years because I would have gotten to see you both. I have so enjoyed seeing all the beautiful images posted on FB of you, Pat, the children over the years. I know he was your great love and I feel blessed to have witnessed it's beginning. He was a wonderful person and will be missed by all. Much love during this time of tremendous grief. My thoughts are with you.
Pam Kirthlink
March 6, 2014
Howard, Thinking of you and yours at this time.
Bob Daws
March 5, 2014
Mandy,
I am so sorry for the loss of a true friend and a genuinely good man. The true definition of gentleman is gentle man and Pat was all of that and more. Tammy and I have nothing but fond memories of the time we spent together in New Mexico. I know words offer little solace to you and the family, but please know our thoughts and prayers are with you. Always, Bob and Tammy.
China Meier
March 5, 2014
Mandy,
You now have your own special angel always looking after you, Mandy. This song called "In the Arms of the Angels" by Sarah Maclaclan reminded me of you today. It's a beautiful song. I hope you can find comfort in the love you had with Pat and all the family and friends that still surround you. And let yourself grieve and heal, grieve and heal for however long you need. The first year is the roughest.
All love to you,
China
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ozKsQnRHb-c
Jalene Berger
March 2, 2014
Mandy,
Eric and I are saddened by the loss of such a good man. Our deepest sympathies and much love are sent in prayer to you and the boys. God Bless Pat and all of you!
John Walker
March 1, 2014
So sorry about your loss, Pat was a good friend when we were SAE's at UT, a great guy.
Geant Gossman
March 1, 2014
Dear Mandy, Matthew and Max,
We are so sorry for your loss. We have many fond memories of times our families spent together in New Mexico. Pat will always be remembered as a great boss, friend and the caring person that he was. Our hearts, thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time.
Grant Gossman and family
Lee De Francesco
February 28, 2014
Mandy, I wanted to write the perfect memorial but find myself at a loss - there are no words that could ever do justice to Pat's life and legacy. Instead, please know you and your family are in our hearts and we wish we could do much more. Pat's life touched so many - I am grateful to have known both you and him. As I struggle to say what's in my heart I can hear his laughter and see his twinkling eyes... He made us all better people. Please know you have many friends here, in New Mexico, and if you need anything just let us know. Hope you feel the invisible arms of all of us around you and the Vogel family. I will always love you and Pat. Those feelings will never end. Thank you for sharing him with all of us. Peace and Love to you and yours.
Matt Curmi
February 28, 2014
Mandy,
My deepest sympathies. I will keep you and your Family in my thoughts and prayers. Please let us know if you need anything at all.
February 27, 2014
Mandy,I am so sad to hear of Pats passing'I know how hard it is...You and yours are in my heart. Dianne Dexter DeButy
Roger Ridenour
February 27, 2014
Howard;
Sorry for your loss. Your brother and you and your family are in our prayers.
February 26, 2014
Mandy,Heartbroken......
February 26, 2014
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with your family during this time and in the future as you deal with the many changes you will be facing. May God Bless all you you in this process.
Noel Dill
Emily Padon
February 26, 2014
Mandy, I have had such a heavy heart since I learned of Pat's illness and can't imagine the depth of your loss & broken heart. He was a great boss, a fine gentleman and a good friend. My prayers for you, Matthew, Patrick and all the family are for the comfort and love of God to help you through your grief with the hope of a glorious reunion for eternity. Pat will be greatly missed by all of us in New Mexico who had the honor of knowing him. My deepest sympathy, prayers and love to you.
Robyn Askew
February 26, 2014
Howard and family, we are deeply saddened by your great loss. May the peace and comfort of the Lord be with all of you. Robyn and Jerry Askew
February 26, 2014
Dear Mandy,
I was deeply saddened to learn of Pat's passing. He was the kindest and most thoughtful person to work for. It was always a priviledge to be associated with him.
With deepest sympathy,
Boch, Severna Park Maryland
Ronnie Vaughan
February 26, 2014
Pat your going to be missed at the Vaughan house. Mandy are prayers are with you and your family. Ronnie,Joyce,Wesley,and Bradley Vaughan

February 25, 2014
Dear Mandy, Howard and the Vogel family,
I am deeply saddened at the passing of Pat. What a wonderful person and a great friend. I remember spending many nights at the Copper Cellar talking to Pat. I would like to offer my deepest condolences to you all.
Billy James, St Michaels, MD
Becky Kinkaid
February 25, 2014
Mandy, I'm so sad to hear of Pat's passing. I know he was the light of your life and my thoughts are w/ you.
February 25, 2014
To Howard and the Vogel family. My brother and I were very sorry to read about Pats passing. It's been a long time but we use to play ball in the empty lot next to your house on Edgewood St. We had some good times and forever memories. With sympathy; Marc Wiggins and Mac Wiggins.
February 25, 2014
My deepest sympathy to the Vogel family--Pat was our neighbor when we moved from Pgh. to TN. He was one fantastic, super young man.
February 25, 2014
Mandy so shocked and sorry to hear about Pat. I know he was your soulmate and it will be so difficult for you not to have his precense with you. Condolences to you and your family.
FRANK SNOWDEN
February 25, 2014
MANDY, WITH BRUCE CHANDLER AND BILL JAMES WHEN WE GOT THE NEWS. WE'RE STUNNED! I DON'T HAVE THE PROPER WORDS.
February 25, 2014
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