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Meredith Stapleton Obituary

Meredith Stapleton
Huntersville, NC - Meredith Elise Legg Stapleton, 26, took her place in Heaven February 24, 2014 while surrounded by her family. Meredith was born in Raleigh, NC on March 4, 1987, the daughter of Basil and Robin Legg.
Meredith grew up in Bridgeport, West Virginia before moving to Huntersville, North Carolina in 2002. Beginning at a young age, Meredith was a star basketball player and athlete, first at Bridgeport High School (WV) and, later at Hopewell High School (NC). She was the first inductee into the Hopewell High School Athletic Hall of Fame. In her senior year, Meredith was also chosen as Miss Hopewell-2005.
Following high school, she accepted a basketball scholarship to play for the University of South Carolina-Aiken where she became a four-year starter from 2005-2009. At the end of her college career, Meredith held many records including all- time leader in scoring (1,480), career three-point field goals made (311), three-point field goal percentage (.407), and free throw percentage (.882).
She also owns the USC Aiken single-season record for consecutive free throws made (45), and best three-point field goal percentage (.475). In 2009, Meredith again made USC Aiken history, sinking the most three-pointers in one game (10).
In the Peach Belt Conference, Meredith holds records in free throw percentage, three-point field goal percentage and most consecutive free throws made. During her career, she was voted the PBC Player of the Week three times and was an all-PBC selection on two occasions. She was inducted in USC-Aiken Athletic Hall of Fame in 2012.
After graduating cum laude with a degree in business administration, Meredith began her professional career as a financial analyst for URS Corporation in Aiken. In January of 2013, she became the project analyst at HNTB Corporation of Charlotte where she was responsible for all accounting practices related to the Charlotte Blue Line extension project. Meredith was greatly loved and respected by all of her managers and coworkers at both URS and HNTB.
While Meredith's athletic, academic and professional accomplishments were tremendous, her life was about so much more. On April 13, 2009, at age 22, Meredith was diagnosed with ocular melanoma, a rare form of cancer that affects around 2000 Americans per year. Faced with this life-changing and devastating diagnosis, Meredith chose to become an ambassador in the fight against her disease and to share her love for God with everyone around her
She established the Meredith Legg Cancer Fund to support research for a cure and travelled to Canada to participate in a melanoma awareness documentary called "Dear 16-year old Me." She became an inspirational and motivational speaker reaching out to hundreds of young people, sharing her faith and raising melanoma awareness.
In spite of her disease and the debilitating treatments, Meredith continued to live her life to the fullest. In 2010, she became the head girls' basketball coach at Mead Hall Episcopal School in Aiken, leading the team to its first winning season, followed by two consecutive championship seasons. She also was the founder, president and head coach of the Aiken Elite AAU girls' basketball program, providing athletic opportunities to young girls in the Greater Aiken community.
In October 2012, Meredith experienced the happiest day of her life when she married her high school sweetheart, Christopher Stapleton, at the St. John's United Methodist Church where she was a member and active in the Friends in Faith Women's Bible study. She was also a member of the Oasis Evening Bible Study at Lake Forest Church in Huntersville.
Meredith loved deep, laughed often, and fought hard. She lifted the hearts of everyone with her ever welcoming and radiant smile and steadfast courage. Her inspiration will forever live on through the thousands of lives she touched.
Meredith was a joy to her family, whom she cherished. Along with her husband Christopher, Meredith is survived by her parents, Basil and Robin Legg of Lorton, VA; her sister and brother-in-law, Lyndsi and Rick Herring of Huntersville, NC; her brother, Basil Ray (Trey) Legg, III of Lorton, VA; and her nephew and nieces Richard Charles (Chase), Jr., Ella Grace and Julia Elise Herring whom Meredith loved with all of her heart.
Meredith was a lifelong sports fan, forever loyal to the UNC Tar Heel basketball and WVU Mountaineer football programs. She was also a dedicated fan of the Carolina Panthers and the Charlotte Bobcats. She loved nothing more than attending games at the Dean E. Smith Center and Mountaineer Field with her family and friends.
A service celebrating Meredith's life will be held Thursday at 5 PM at St. John's United Methodist Church in Aiken, SC., Rev. Dr. George K. Howle officiating. A reception will follow at the church. Honorary pallbearers are Jason Stapleton, Carter Stapleton and Maria Stapleton; Pamela Legg, Dr. Laura Hellman, Jennifer Ferrell, Vanessa Legg, Sarah Young, Dustin Daughtrey.
In addition, a visitation will be held on Friday from 5-7 PM at James Funeral Home in Huntersville, N.C., reception to follow. The graveside service will take place on Saturday at 11 AM at Northlake Memorial Gardens in Huntersville, N.C.
At Meredith's request, a memory jar will be placed at services in both Aiken and Huntersville. Family and friends are encouraged to bring a memory of Meredith (favorite scripture, written memory or picture, etc.) to add to this jar.
In lieu of flowers, send donations to the Meredith Legg Cancer Fund, First Community Bank, 407 Silver Bluff Road SW, Aiken, SC, 29803.
Services entrusted to Rogers and Breece Funeral Home Fayetteville, NC and James Funeral Home Charlotte, NC

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Published by Aiken Standard and North Augusta Star on Feb. 26, 2014.

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Pam B.

November 8, 2020

Just saw Meredith's episode on S.Y.T.T.D. Was hoping for the best when I went to her Facebook page. So sorry that she didn't get the long life she deserved. She was a beautiful bride, and my heart breaks for her family. God bless you all.

callaway Barron

September 3, 2014

:( Meredith was my roll model. My star basketball player. My everything I looked up to her like. A big sister. She will never be.forgotten in my heart. Their Is always a spot saved just for meredith. I know she is up on heavan dancing with Jesus and laughing having a good time. I love u meredith.

callaway Barron

September 3, 2014

Meredith was the one i looked up to in basketball. I miss her so much. Every time I close my eyes their she is. I went to all of the pacer games just to watch her play. I went to her.funeral and I couldn't handle it. I wanted to.get on that casket and just hold her and cry. When I left. I didn't get sleep for 2 whole weeks. I will always remember Meredith . And her family. I wish god wouldn't have taken u so early. But I know when she got.to heavan
God said "good game Meredith".I love u

Lori & Bill Swift

February 28, 2014

Thank you Meredith for enhancing our lives with your beautiful presence and radiant smile. May our Lord hold you in His ever comforting arms :)

Dale & Marlen Waters

February 27, 2014

Basil & Robin,
There are no words that I could use to express our sorrow at Meredith's homegoing. In her all to short earthly life she has certainly left her mark. She was extraordinary in every way and we at Bridgeport United Methodist remember her and your entire family with great fondness.

May God be with each of you during this difficult time.

February 26, 2014

You are sooo Loved Meredith. We miss you already! You were so brave, so courageous, so faithful to share Christ's message of the hope of heaven. Now receive the sweet words we long to hear from Him.... "Well done thy good and faithful servant... You have been faithful with a few things, I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your Master's happiness." Matthew 25:21. See you in heaven sweet friend.....we love you dearly! JoEllen and Jeff Boggess, Raleigh

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