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Barbara Shaler Obituary
AIKEN - BARBARA KAY SHALER, 80, beloved wife of Richard J. Shaler, passed away unexpectedly, Tuesday, January 24, 2023 at her residence.
A native of Saginaw, MI, Barbara was a daughter of the late John and Helen Hickson Sobol. She grew up and was educated in Michigan. Barbara worked for the U. S. Postal Service in West Palm Beach, FL, retiring as manager after 25 years in 2003. She and Richard moved to Aiken in 2007. She was an active member of St. Mary Help of Christians Catholic Church where she was a member of the Perpetual Adoration team.
Survivors include her husband of 61 years, Richard; daughter, Susan Shaler, Aiken, sons, Joseph Shaler (Mary), Indianapolis, IN, Patrick Shaler (Jill), Palm Coast, FL; grandchildren, Sam Shaler, Katie McCurry, Nicholas Shaler, Zakree Shaler, Eric Rancke; great-grandchildren, Addalyn and Lucas Shaler, Samuel and Logan Rancke, Kash Shaler; brothers, John Sobol (Pat), Mike Sobol (Sue) all of Michigan; sisters, Kathleen "Kitty" Packard (Larry), Mary Carlton, all of Michigan.
A Requiem Mass will be Celebrated Saturday morning, January 28th at 10 o'clock in the old St. Mary Help of Christians Church on Park Ave. followed by inurnment in the church's columbarium.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions may be directed to St. Mary's Respect Life Group, 203 Park Ave., SE, Aiken, SC 29801.
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JoAnn Goodrich
February 17, 2023
Dear Rick and Family,
We are so sorry for the loss of your beloved wife, mother and friend, Barbara. She was a very special and wonderful person whom will be missed by all she touched.
We are sending loving thoughts and healing prayers.
Love,
JoAnn & Kenny
Sue Nesbitt
January 30, 2023
My condolences to Barbara's family and friends. I started work with Barbara as one of my supervisors at the WPB post office in '81. Glad I got to know her.RIP
Mary and Willie Ayers
January 29, 2023
Rick, so sorry for your loss of Barbara, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family
Sandy Shoemaker
January 28, 2023
My condolences to Rick for the loss of his long time love. I worked over 2 decades with them both. Yesterday I was commenting on how good Barbara looked in a picture. Today I read she is gone. Life is unpredictable and short. I´m glad they got many years of retirement to enjoy each other and their loved ones. RIP Barbara
Judy Edgar Fred
January 28, 2023
Dear Rick and family,
Remembering you all in my prayers today. I wish I could be there to honor Barb today.
Love to all the family
Judy Edgar Fred
Ken & JoAnn Goodrich
January 26, 2023
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Annelle Shook
January 26, 2023
I have fond memories of Barbara from working for her at the post office. I send my condolences to all who mourn her. May she rest in peace. Sincerely, Annelle
Suzanne Smith
January 26, 2023
Dan and I were so sorry to hear of Barbara´s passing. She was a great friend and Boss. We worked with her for many years. Our condolences to Rick, Susan and the rest of the family. May God be with you all in this time of sorrow. Sending love and prayers.
Mary Sue MacDonnell
January 25, 2023
I'm so sorry to hear about Barbara's passing. She was my boss, mentor, and friend. My deepest sympathy to the entire family.
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